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Reading of the river's

Spent a few days to read the novel borrowed from the clouds
of the river view with a touch of middle-aged women to several people about the woman's marriage story: the protagonist Wei, calm restrained, wise and generous. Wei few close friends around, forceful personality ginger Yan, Chen Xiang weak sentimental, romantic Mengping alone, there are free and easy comfortable Guo Rongrong, all staged in the castle with their emotions of divorce, there is the Cold War , and a quarrel, a slapstick, the women of different characters played out no smoke of war, without exception,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], suffered a dissolution of marriage. The results of two couples return to the old house old ship is still going round in circles, most people are optimistic about the Wei Zhuang not a whisper quiet to irreversible end in divorce.
reading this book, I can not help book for women sighed with regret: What is the change in a woman marriage, or marriage, a woman simply could not handle the heat? The wisdom of women, women's literacy, women's emotional, are in the derailment of the marriage so vulnerable to be vulnerable in front of it? Intellectual, such as Wei who failed in the face of their own marriage will be secretly wondering: Where is the wrong time in the end?
As a reader, I admire the idea of ​​rational, river brushwork Conciseness nature,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], with the plain text to write ripe rounded end, not artificial, not virtual, real vivid,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], lifelike portrait of a few people have, especially in middle-aged woman depicted compare the psychological place. Women in the text the reader can even find their place.
measure about privately, though I hope I can be like Wei Zhuang, Yan Jiang, but I can only find in their own shadow, yet forceful character, competence, eyes can not tolerate Half of sand, and also wise and intellectual himself; and friends Sang Sang, like most of the text is dignified and restrained, thoughtful Wei, her calm and quiet has been my respect. Unfortunately, the woman can not be perfect perfect running his own marriage. There is a saying: Marriage is like a ship traveling at sea, the couple will not be completely on the rocks this sailing helmsman, even then outstanding helmsman when the rocks do occur, the reason there are different family patterns,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], That is because the rock helmsman deal with the problem in different ways!
ponder their marriage, and then compare to others of the marriage, then why not! Unlike love marriage, a young companion, passionate extravagance; into the marriage, whether people would be willing, are too mundane, days like water,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], dropping water, dripping with old age may people, but will love change family almost every marriage is a must. You get used to bland, habits of tolerance and to understand the open eyes closed eye, or self-deception On the contrary it is bite bone pain. And Wei lamented the same: not leave is a pain, away from more of a pain.
marriage was flawed, there is no absolute wrongs, when the feelings of suspicion and tortured by a thousand wounds million hole, even if the separation of right and wrong, do not have any meaning. The resistance is only a form of divorce is allowed in real life for a better concept of marriage as a way to legally maintain. I like Wei's divorce, was decisively away from completely, never to the slightest ambiguity. In contrast, I despise myself, always considered themselves as the uncontested top dog in the mortal world knowing about, and often sigh can not hit the opponent must split, in fact, but for his indecisive excuses, saying that white women in the end, or the frog in warm water, boiling water in the marriage has lost the ability to bounce.
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